A man is literally what he muses. Our life is what our thoughts make it.----James Allen. Best to think on truth.
"Veritas vos liberabit" - The truth shall set us all free.
...just musing on truth

Monday, February 21, 2011

AS A TALE THAT IS TOLD!

Psalms 90:9 For all our days are passed away in thy wrath: we spend our years as a tale that is told.
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Our life is a story.
One day it will be told.
One day it will be read by someone.
Each day like pages of a story book,
Each moment like lines written to tell a tale.

Each thought, now hidden by our silence, will be rudely brought to the fore for men to see the hidden weakness or wickedness of many a heart.
Each word, cleverly coined or carelessly spoken that lifts or dampens men's spirits, will be accurately repeated, word for word, on the housetops for the world to hear.
And every action or inaction, deliberate or thoughtless, which goes to make or mar men's destinies will be shown up for what it actually contributed to God's purpose.

Our thoughts, words and deeds, go to tell a story whose total lessons can only be seen when the final scenes have all been read.

There were men and women in history who lost sight of this careful recording and so were careless in their decisions. I perceive they may be tortured with moments of regret whether in Heaven or in Hell, thinking back and wishing they can go back to right what they did wrong and rewrite the story the way they would have loved it to be read.

If only our mother Eve had known that I will one day read her high treachery and sell-out of the human race to the serpent, maybe she wouldn't have eaten the enticing apple. Maybe Pa Adam would have opted to rebuke and repent on her behalf if he knew that I will one day read how he sold my inheritance to the devil.

If Esau, the man born with a hairy garment destined to carry the lineage and covenant of Abraham had known that history was being written the day he swore and signed to sell his birthright for a plate of porridge, I guess he would have known how to discipline his appetite and value eternal things over transient hunger.

If king David had known that his careless walk on the balcony, looking into other peoples' bathrooms and sleeping with a girl young enough to be his granddaughter, would enter Church storybooks and be read the world over by children in countless Sunday schools, he would have fought harder to resist committing "lookery" and "touchery" before it resulted in "adultery".

If only Judas had known that his "foolproof plan" of making a quick "loose change" on the side by selling out Jesus, whom he was so sure no one can arrest, would become the way of fulfilling such a negative prophecy, he probably would have thought twice before throwing out his bishopric for a mere, paltry thirty pieces of silver.

But then, there were other men who kept this in focus and made better use of their historic moments.

Pa Abraham knew he will one day become rich . . . . made rich by Jehovah, so he refused the stolen goods offered by the king of Sodom "lest it be said that someone made Abraham rich"

Genesis 14:22-23 And Abram said to the king of Sodom, I have lift up mine hand unto the Lord, the most high God, the possessor of heaven and earth,
That I will not [take] from a thread even to a shoe-latchet, and that I will not take any thing that [is] thine, lest thou shouldest say, I have made Abram rich:

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Nehemiah was sent to rebuild the walls broken down and the gates burned with fire. He set a time to return and most likely to come give report. His ministry was divinely guided by reading privately and publicly from the Holy records of men before him. So you will see a man repeatedly praying that God will remember every detail of his labour and reward him accordingly. He knew that as I am reading the story of Solomon who allowed "outlandish women to lead him to sin" so will men one day, read my story.” Neh. 13:19, 22 - 31

Our Master and Saviour knew that His life will be a Gospel to be preached one day, so we hear Him declare . . . .

Matthew 24:14 14 And this gospel of the kingdom shall be preached in all the world for a witness unto all nations; and then shall the end come.
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Matthew 26:13 13 Verily I say unto you, Wheresoever this gospel shall be preached in the whole world,[ there] shall also this, that this woman hath done, be told for a memorial of her.
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Be careful beloved. Be watchful, be vigilant; every action or inaction goes to tell the complete story. Do not let momentary pressure of pain or pleasure mar the beautiful story that God is labouring to tell the world by your life.

If you spend all your years struggling with a besetting sin, dragging your feet in making decisive commitments and doing shameful things in secret because you think no one will know, I beg you to have a rethink. There is nothing hidden that shall not be uncovered; nothing secretly enjoyed in private that shall not be shamefully endured in public.

Every day, every hour; every action, every word, every thought; none is hidden, none is missed by the faithful Angels, (recorders in Heaven) and God's holy Scribes(recorders on the earth) who write the eternal records that men will read when you are gone and all will read later on in Eternity.

Dearly beloved, "Live your life the way you will want the story told."


Culled from Living Seed Ministries.

FRIENDS AND FAMILY

(Dedicated to all my friends and followers on Facebook, Blog, Wordpress, Twitter, Hi5, Naija Stories, Google, Yahoo, Yookos, Vimeo, YouTube, MySpace, IMs and other social media.)

That friends are pearl gifts from God is not an understatement any longer to me.

From far and near, home and away, across the oceans and distant borderlands; the sweet echoes from the hearts of my friends resonate in my deepest heart.

To have friends that are truly friends is indeed more than a blessing. Friends who communicate with you all through the year; who stand in the room with you when everyone else leaves; who comfort you in lonely moments and wipe away your tears with their joy; and cheer you up to rise again each time you fall…these are great friends called family.

Friends who love you and keep the memory of you despite distance are true friends.

Someone asked me sometimes ago that who are my family? I said, “My family is not in whose blood I carry or just only the people I see everyday that we sucked from the same breast, that we eat from the same pots or that we sleep together on the same bed. My families are those I love and who love me equally.”

You are my family and I love you.

Friends are God’s idea and He has bestowed on them the strength to scale barriers and become carriers of His blessings. You overcame strong barriers from distant and near shores, and became carriers of inundating blessings which you delivered to me on my birthday. Your calls, text messages, prayers, wall messages, MMS...You are wonderful people. I love you.

Friends are one of the astounding, indisputable evidences of the existence of God, because only God can create true friends.

Friends are like fences strategically located by God in different parts of the world. They fence our lives from intending dangers or attacks coming from different parts of the world.

Friends are like trees that are planted by the rivers of water, which flourish forever.

Friends are indeed pearl gifts from God to us to always remind us of His unfailing and unfeigning love, help and tender mercies or care.

To all my friends in the continents of Africa, Asia, Australia, South America, North America and Europe – across the Pacific and Indian OceansI LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH.

Always remember that, “FRIENDS ARE FRIENDS FOREVER.”

That’s just the way it is.

Friday, February 18, 2011

...on Wedding Planning

Our elders used to say that, “The path of lies may be projected for long or seems forever but, one day truth will surely show up and come along with us.”

Truth is so powerful that it can offend mental judgment and refused by popular acceptance; especially, when it doesn’t conform to popular essence. Truth tastes very bitter when swallowed by a mouth full of lies and when it is received into a deceptive heart.

A survey recently carried out revealed that, over 60% of yet-to-marry women in Nigeria today look forward to getting married intrinsically because of the euphoria that wedding ceremony usually gives and all other things that are attached to it; not because they have plans for the reality of marriage (the life after wedding). Their dreams are usually focused on the wedding plans.

Though this is questionable, and I know that proponents of feminism like August Bebel and Shakespeare will want to argue this out. To be candid, let’s look intently into our society today, is it not indisputable? Come to think of it, if a home is built on wedding plans and not marriage plans, the union will only survive the nuptial night.
Therefore, proper definitions have to be given to both wedding and marriage. While a wedding is an occasion for just a day or maximum 2-3 days when you consider the pre-wedding day’s activities like wedding engagement and reception preparation; marriage is for a lifetime, that is, “till death do us part”.
A man has to dream and properly plan for his marriage before going to the altar to say “Yes, I do!”, else, he will say later that, “What did I do?” He must have seen the future and get his plans right. Common, not just daydreaming, but feasible plans and propositions.
Some may argue that some women do have plans for marriage. I agree, but they belong to the less than 40%. More so, as soon as the thoughts on wedding begin to flood their hearts, they flush marriage plans into the lagoon; thoughts like, the bridal train, the cake, the bridal gown, make up artist, bridal colour, bridal rings and all other wedding needs or necessities.
If a woman truly has a right vision or plans for her intended marriage before her wedding planning (and not in marriage), a lot of the extravagance and other extravaganza that usually complement the exchange of marital vows will be avoided. I mean, frivolous expenses will not be included in the wedding plans. The precious time spent in preparing for the occasion reception will be minimized. Believe me, culture has nothing to do with this; it’s about you having the understanding and making up your mind on this.
It’s a cultural illusion and absolute self-deception to think that the way to exhibit wealth and show case one’s social status is in wedding extravaganza. Wrong! Such should be reserved till marriage years when the reality of togetherness, responsibilities and pursuit of purpose become substantial. This isn’t to say that you should not plan well and have a hilarious and phenomenal ceremony – No! Only that moderation should be the watchword. Moderation cannot be overemphasized as there is no culture that doesn’t approve moderation in all life’s endeavours.

I tell you, this will save many a people a lot of headaches, financial debts and other hiccups.
Save the precious pre-marital, courtship or engagement period to focus and plan for marriage so as to be fulfilled. The culture of debt, incurring unnecessary and avoidable debts should be discouraged and must stop. This kind of culture is an abnormal social practice which breeds social deviants and now, we have turned it to a cultural norm.

“Cut your coat according to your size.”

“When a man is ready to settle down, what he looks for is not what most women think…” (Pearl Advocate)

He that hath ears let him hear what the voice of truth is saying. The voice of truth has spoken.

Monday, February 14, 2011

On Valentine's Night: NOT ENOUGH


>>>What kind of Val's gift do you desire???

Just like the owl’s eyes
completing a cyclic motion;
The rotation of the clock
and the look I took across the dock
seems the year now tends in tens-count.

The caravan of spices
and the alteration in the decor
along the main roads
ascertained the arrival of Valentine.
Chants of love filled the atmosphere.

He sat, he stood and he shivered;
The thought that valentine’s fine
will find him again got him aggrieved.

Just hear him out first…

They met at the rendezvous,
her arrival almost bamboozled him.
Her aesthetically well-treated façade
will intimidate even the Prince of Persia,
if they stand or sit face-to-face.

Huh! But he’s bold and confident.

In the midst of this (emotional) confusion,
only an action was needed to bring satisfaction…
An expression of love.

(What could this be?)

He gave her a quick kiss,
she said, not enough.

He gave her an i-card (interactive card),
she said, not enough.

He gave her an android mobile device,
she said not enough.

He gave her a social media navigator,
not enough.

He gave her a teddy bear,
hey, ey! Hmm, not enough.

He gave her a sleek cinderellical dress,
not enough.

He gave her key to a new Bugatti Veyron 16.4 car,
not enough.

He gave her flight ticket to Dubai,
not enough.

He gave her a Tiffany diamond jewelry box,
not enough.

(He paused for awhile)
Then, gave her a…………BIBLE,
that’s enoughhhhhhhhhhh.

What a great valentine gift to desire.

The Word of God,
that’s enough.